Top 10 Ways on How to Catch a Cheating Husband
Posted: Monday, March 19, 2007
by Stephany Alexander
Cheating husbands leave many signs and with a bit of detective work, a wife can catch her husband with sold proof. Many wives make the mistake of hiring an expensive detective or purchasing pricey spy equipment. However, if you are aware of some of the signs of a cheating husband and know your husband’s behavior and habits well, you simply need to follow your gut instinct and employ some of the top 10 ways of how to catch a cheating husband. Most of all, be patient. Give yourself 3-4 weeks of spying time.
1. Set a trap. Cheating husbands usually cheat when their wife is out of town. Tell your husband that you are leaving for a couple of days and then wait, listen and watch. Place a recording surveillance device in your bedroom or near the phone and then listen. Park in a friend’s car with a hat and sunglasses on and follow his car or wait for someone to come to the house. Keep a camera, binoculars and a cell phone with you. Cheating husbands usually take their affair out for dinner and a rendezvous while you are gone. Give your cheating husband lots of space to make a mistake. Your husband will leave cheating signs unknowingly. Make sure you are “busy" or out of the house a lot while you are investigating. Take a long nap under your bed at lunch or in the evening or place a long recording digital tape recorder which is voice activated under the bed. This wouldn’t work if you have children or a dog.
2. Watch his cell phone. A sign of a cheating husband can be if he protects his cell phone with a password, unexpectedly ask to borrow his cell phone to make an important call. Then make a fake call, pressing as many buttons of his call log as possible to note any strange calls. Go to bathroom with phone if at all possible. Watch whether his cell phone is always turned off when with you or whether he takes unusually long to phone you back. Note the times, dates and length of any suspicious calls. Press the re-dial on the phone or *69. This is an effective way to find out who they’ve been calling.
3. Place a long-recording digital tape recorder under your cheating husband’s car seat every morning and then listen to it when you are alone. Please check the laws in your city or state to make sure it is legal to record someone in your car if they are borrowing it. The same goes for a GPS tracking device which tracks everywhere your husband’s car goes. GPS tracking devices are now made the size of a pack of chewing gum so they are easy to hide.
4. Monitor your husband’s computer usage. Does he use the computer late at night or for an unusual amount of time? Cheating husbands frequently utilize free email services such as hotmail, msn, yahoo, gmail, hushmail, etc… Check his internet web browser history for warning signs. If you suspect your husband is cheating, you can install a keystroke logger which will log every keystroke your husband types, including his passwords. There are many good ones currently for sale.
5. A sign of a cheating husband could be if he is frequenting any dating sites, create a fake profile on-line of someone you think your husband would be attracted to and then start flirting. Many wives have successfully used this technique.
6. Be careful of your cheating husband’s close friends who may cover for him because of loyalty feelings. Even if they don’t approve of your husband’s cheating ways, they may still cover for his cheating by providing an alibi for him.
7. Set booby traps in your house. If you think your cheating husband may be bringing someone into your home while you are traveling or out, set some traps. Put on a clean set of sheets and then place a crumb on the bedspread. Make sure that a dog or cat don’t move it. Then check to see if the crumb is still in the same place after your return.
8. Get your girlfriend’s to help. Sign up a willing acquaintance or girlfriend to hit on your husband at a pre-determined location to see if he will bite. It is helpful if she carries a tape recorder in her purse so you may hear him.
9. Monitor your husband’s driving habits for a month. Watch for increase in gas receipts and monitor the car's odometer to see if there are extra unexplained miles on the car. Monitor the time he leaves for work and the time he comes home. You should be able to establish a pattern by keeping a calendar and noting the times. If your husband claims to be working late, check paycheck stubs to verify his overtime. If your husband explains a late return home as a result of having to drive out of town on business, yet the mileage on the car indicates less than ten miles driven, you’ll have caught your cheating husband in a lie which may be due to his adultery.
10. Paper signs of a cheating husband can include unexplained receipts, more frequent ATM withdrawals, and unexplained credit card charges. Note any strange dates and times. Is there a restaurant charge when he should have been at work? Check his business deductions if possible.
If you have tried some of the above tips on how to catch a cheating husband and have been unsuccessful, try playing your poker face. Pretend like you know something and give him 24 hours to come clean or else... However, only resort to this after you have tried all other means because if you accuse him, your husband will know you are on to him, deny any wrong doing and cover his cheating tracks better next time.
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Top-level comments on this article: (3 total)this article was very helpful..I just busted my husband of 20yrs with my best friend thank you for your helpIf you were married for 20 years why couldn't you sit down and discuss your concerns? Why did you need to spy on your husband and violate his privacy? Clearly you both don't respect each other.
Though many men and women may feel justified in spying on their spouses, it's unethical and rarely encourages reconciliation. Often it's grounds for a divorce. An unhappy, unfulfilled spouse should end a marriage, especially if he or she knows there are others he or she would rather be with. People fall in and out of love. No one can control another person's feelings. No wife or husband can make his or her spouse be faithful. In this country, people do not have to have sex with a spouse or be forced to have sex with a spouse, share their thoughts, or even sit in the same room with the other person. People also have a right to leave a marriage for any reason--and even no reason at all, which is the case in no-fault divorce states. And though it's socially taboo, people also have a right to leave a spouse for another romantic partner. People do fall in love with other people. No spouse can force his or her spouse to love him or her. Only 5 states in this country still have "alienation of affection" laws and there is a reason for that! Though I believe men and women should end a marriage rather than cheat because the person they married is under the impression the relationship is monogamous, I also believe that marriage partners are not property. Just because we get married does not mean we enter into slavery! It is just as wrong to follow someone, spy on someone, and record someone without his or her knowledge as it is to sleep with every Tom and Tracy we meet. If I found out my spouse was spying on me--for whatever reasons--I would file for divorce immediately! Who wants to be married to someone this desperate and insecure?
Baloney - the harm created by a cheating spouse is significant - emotionally and financially. The victimized spouse has every right to use whatever legal resourcers are available to protect her or himself from this betrayal.
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